May 29, 2009

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안 녕 하 세 요?
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if someone texts you, "hi! can you be my friend?" and you reply, "yes!", does that automatically make you friends? *ay hayooop*


recently, i have been wondering who my real friends are..
un bang lagi kong nakakasama at nakakakwentuhan? *nakakainuman?*
ung mga laging nagtetext ng quotes? mapa love quote man o bible quote..
ung mga nagtetext ng hello, good morning, musta ka na?
ung mga nagyayaya ng mga outing?
ung mga kaklase mo sa kung saan saang subjects?
kalaro, mapa-lansangan man o sa computer?


and could i still consider them as friends if:
matagal ko na silang hindi nakikita?
hindi na nakakapagcommunicate?
hindi na nagpapansinan?
wala na kaming common interests?

EWAN?



na-curious ako, ano ba ibig sabihin ng FRIENDSHIP? nag search ako sa wiki at eto nabasa ko:

Friendship is co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibitloyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. 

*tsssssst*

supportive? respect? loyalty? trust? tsk.. grrrrrabe! napaka demanding pala maging isang "friend".. para kang naghanap ng boss na hindi nagpapasweldo.. and yet, the work consumes most of your time.. hindi kasi pwedeng on-off-on-off ang pagiging isang "friend".. when he/she calls you, you are expected to be there to give comfort and support. pag wala ka, FRIENDSHIP OVER agad.. ganyanan naman eh.. *ay hayooop*

so, pag tinawag kang "BEST friend", it's like you're the "employee of the month"! OO, MONTH LANG! kasi next month, pwedeng iba na.. kaya dapat galingan mo ang pagiging "friend" para ikaw lagi ang "friend of the month" islash "best friend".. *ay hayooop*

but, is it really necessary to have "friends"? baket? meron na bang namatay dahil wala siyang "friend(s)"? wala naman ah! siguro may mga nag-suicide.. pero you won't see in their death certificates that their cause of death is lack of friendship..



nag-blog lang ako kasi nalilito na ako sa mga "friends" ko.. puro na lang backstabban, siraan, plastikan.. inaamin ko plastik ako *minsan*.. pero kasi ayoko lang ng away.. minsan naiipit na ako sa gitna kasi di ko na alam sino dapat kong kampihan.. kahit na pareho naman kayong tama *or minsan pareho kayong mali*..

laging sinasabi "walang iwanan!" pero minsan once they get what they want, "kanya-kanya na!".. hindi ibig sabihin na pag may nawawalang isa sa grupo, lumalayo na ung isang un.. minsan, ung grupo na ung lumalayo..

since 1st year, nagpapalit ako ng mga sinasamahang tao every sem.. not because i don't want the previous ones anymore, but because i have no choice.. i just thought this time, it would be different.. *ay hayooop, nagdrama*


"Hindi mo matatawag na kaibigan ang isang tao, kung hindi mo pa siya nagagamit.."
-Mr. Stupid


Feeling ko may mga mang babackstab na naman sa akin.. pero go ahead..

Note: I'm not trying to be the good guy here.. Gawin niyo na akong kontrabida for all I care.. Sinasabi ko lang naiisip ko..*ay hayooop talaga*